Billionaire Mentality

Billionaire Mentality
by Jeanna Gabellini

I know, for a fact, that you want to increase your wealth and relationship with money. You wouldn't have read Robert Kiyosaki's books or contacted me if that weren't true. So, here's the question: Are you ready to allow the constant flow of money and prosperity into your life? All it takes is a decision and belief.
Simple, huh?! Easy? Well, you'll have to let go of a great many beliefs that you currently hold onto for dear life. This will be very disruptive to your current sense of security. It will be like jumping out of an airplane. You have to trust that a parachute will open and allow you to drift safely as you enjoy the ride. Did that make your stomach drop? Your heart flutter? Uh-huh. You're getting a sense of this already.

Prosperity

Billionaires trust something that most others don't. There is an abundance of money and resources. A never-ending supply. There is a security and belief that all of their needs will be met. I'm not just talking money and doodads here. I'm talking about everything. Love, knowledge, space, energy, peace, fun, and more. Now all billionaires may not feel all of that, but that is true prosperity. That "knowing and trust" allows you to act more freely. You make decisions based on what you want, not what is possible. Billionaires know it's all possible.

That Lacking Feeling

At any point so far have you thought, "I don't need to be a billionaire" or "I can't imagine that! A millionaire is even beyond me" or "How would I get there?" or "I have to hurry up and do a bunch of stuff to get there"? If yes, then there's a lacking feeling somewhere inside your belief system. Lacking means not enough of something, to be deficient in something. I notice "lack" in clients when they think if they do ___________ they'll have to give up _________. Prosperity means trusting you can have the desired outcome without having to give up anything (except that nasty Gremlin who has you believing those limiting thoughts!). When we see things as black or white, we usually see things as either/or. When abundance is the primary thought, you can have it all. You won't be taking away from anyone else, either.

Lacking feels like a knot in your stomach or a squeezing feeling. fear, arghhh! I went to a beautiful restaurant for dinner Saturday night. The couple I was with kept making comments about the menu prices. It detracted from the beauty of the moment and anticipation of the meal. When you focus on price (lack), you start judging and justifying its worth. If you're in business for yourself, you'll notice the same thing happens when increasing your fee or coming up with prices. The question to be asking yourself is "What do I want?" and "What feels best?". If an expensive dinner freaks you out, don't do it. But notice what beliefs are making that decision for you. If you're focused on paying debt and cutting down on doodads, this decision is aligned with your strategy. But strategy will only get you so far if you have lack lurking behind the scenes.

I've coached folks who are millionaires, with no debt, and they still are plagued with the fear that someday their wealth will disappear. This has them making choices in their lives that aren't truly making them happy. Staying in careers that have them working 24/7. This is not the way life is designed to be. You can let go of the grip you have on what "security" means. You have the choice to go on the same way or uncover more of what's limiting you. As you get smarter, the lack mentality is very subtle but has a huge impact on your life. The "Billionaire Mentality" is available to you right now!

Are You Truly Ready for Prosperity?

Well, are you? Really? Okay. It's pretty simple, but it takes a commitment. You'll have bouts with fear, discomfort, bliss, worry, relief, and more. I co-facilitate a class called "The Prosperity Game." We watch folks who really like the idea of what we're teaching, but whose "gremlins" want to keep making this process hard. They want to figure out, control, push, worry, and get spun in their heads about how to get what they want. It's not fun. Then a few weeks into the class we start challenging them to let go of the past and do something from a place of abundance. When they try it, they see the results that prove this way of thinking works. Then they start practicing in bigger ways. Ah! More proof. Then they start trusting. Then they bliss out. It's not a dream. It's their new reality.

A Kick to Start You

1. Decide to focus on what you want, rather than what you don't want.
2. Ask yourself when making decisions, "If money wasn't an issue what would I do or how would I feel about this issue? If I knew my desire was possible what would I do next?"
3. Surround yourself with people, books, audio tapes, and information that supports you in this quest. This isn't the average man's way of thinking. Most people are hooked into struggle, limitations, and "somedays." Ask your coach or mentor to point out your blind spots in this area.
4. Start noticing who is making decisions for you. Is it your "gremlin" or is it the billionaire who trusts in his/her own brilliance and unlimited resources?
5. If you want this mentality now and you want to make it easy, do "The Prosperity Game." I say this because I know the power of it. It transformed my life more than anything else I've ever done. I say this from the bottom of my heart. I know what's possible for you. You know, too.

There is a way of thinking that some people practice. It's relaxing, fulfilling and great fun. Others watch and try hard to get the same results. They don't understand why it's not unfolding the same way for them. The missing piece is trust. Trust the process, yourself, others and abundance will abound.

Copyright © 2007 Jeanna Gabellini

Jeanna Gabellini is an Xtreme Abundance™ personal and business coach, and the head honcho of MASTERPEACE Coaching & Training. For over ten years she has empowered thousands of individuals and businesses to take their focus off "perceived" limitations and reach their desired personal and financial goals NOW! She regularly conducts teleclasses and is the author of "The Art of Practice" Ebook.

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Be Inspired, Not Tired

Be Inspired Not Tired
by Eva Gregory

Do you feel like you are just going through the motions and nothing you truly want in life is coming to fruition? Do you feel tired and drained more often than not? Are there things you know you have to get done, but you are lacking the motivation to do them? How about changing things around so that they become "inspired actions", and not "required actions"?

One definition of inspire is "to exert an animating, enlivening or exalted influence upon". Even the definition sounds fun, does it not? I will go one further and say that it is also powerful and empowering. I call it powerful because it can create a great deal of positive energy, and empowering because you will gain control back over a situation. Can you image finding joy in everything, having life be lively and exciting on a regular basis? Inspired actions are those that you get so excited about that wild horses could not stop you from doing them and will usually flow effortlessly and quickly. Believe me, it IS possible.

How does one become inspired and create a world of inspired actions? It goes back to setting your intentions for what you want, visualizing it, getting into the feeling place "as if" it has happened exactly the way you want it and let the inspired action "come to you". Cool, huh? Sounds easy? It is. But if you get stuck, you can work backwards by focusing on what motivates you to complete your project. Is it your family, having free time to play, or perhaps just the satisfaction of having everything checked off of your "to do" list? Better yet, write down your tasks and your motivations. Things seem to become more concrete, more "real" when they are written down. These tools will help you turn a project or task into something that provides you with major inspiration. Just like Jack.

Jack was in the process of writing what he termed his "great American novel." In fact, he had been in the process for four years and despite what he told his friends and family, he was not feeling very inspired. His novel had become the joke amongst his friends and the proverbial albatross around his neck. When Jack decided to set his intentions and visualize the outcome, he had a difficult time doing this. He realized that he could not get into his feeling place because the story he was writing did not fuel his passion. He could not even visualize himself completing this book. His writing had taken a wrong turn, and instead of backing up or starting over, he had felt compelled to continue because of the expectations of others. Jack was so surprised and energized by this realization that he immediately started outlining the book he wanted to write. Writing had become an inspired action and Jack did not feel like it was a required one.

So, what are you waiting for? There is NO time like the present. Find a little quiet, turn on your favorite music, light a candle, and get busy setting those intentions to create inspired actions. Remember, inspired actions will make you feel alive; before, due to the planning and anticipation, during, as you will be relishing actually putting your desires to action, and after, when you are remembering the task and your feelings while it was being done. So, get out your pen and paper and get busy. The time has come to be inspired, not tired!


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Are You Positive or Negative?

Are you Positive or Negative?
by Eva Gregory

Magnetism is a wonderful thing. We often hear that someone "has a magnetic personality", or that they are "full of magnetism", even that opposites attract "like magnets". Why the fascination with magnetism? Perhaps because the term magnetism implies that the opportunity exists for something to be drawn to you easily and effortlessly. What if that thing is success, fame, or how about money?

Money is the thing that the majority of the population craves, but most people feel they don't have enough of. Why is that? Since we know how strong the powers of attraction are, and that like attracts like, the answer lies in the perception "∑but most people feel they don't have enough of."

For example, let's suppose that you are facing a bag of money. You REALLY want that bag of money. You are standing there thinking of all of the things you can't afford because you don't have the bag of money. You are focused on all the things you can't be, do, or have.

Money has a positive ionic charge, your face - has a positive charge (+) and the back of your head has a negative charge (-). The laws of the Universe say that you and the bag of money are going to continue to repel each other.

So let's imagine that you become frustrated and turn away from the bag of money. (Your negative charge is now facing the positive charge of the bag of money.) You would like to have it, and can think of all of the positive things you would like to do with it, and you are now vibrating positive thoughts. The Laws of Attraction say that you are now in a place where you can attract the bag of money. You have become a money magnet.

When you take a snapshot of your current scenario can you state with sincerity that you are magnetizing money? Have you let go of any limiting beliefs that you have about money? Like financial success is something that happens to others, or that you are undeserving? If money and financial success is your goal how can you become that all powerful magnet?

Allow it!

Allow yourself to let go of any negative thoughts and limiting beliefs that have blocked your success. Allow yourself to believe that you can have the success that you desire. Allow yourself to have the courage to pursue the avenues that will lead you to your financial success. Allow yourself to magnetize the people and scenarios that will help your team assemble effortlessly. Allow your spirit to dance with the knowledge that your have the power to bring what you want to fruition.

You do have what it takes to become a money magnet. You just have to believe in yourself, believe in your goals, and trust that the Universe will do its part once you've done yours.

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Are You Careful or Careless?

Are You Careful or Careless?
by Eva Gregory

The average adult typically utters 40,000 words each day, according to a study performed by Professor Robin Dunbar of Liverpool University. A substantial amount, but have you actually considered how valuable words are? What about how powerful they are? Words have the power to heal, lighten, comfort, and encourage, on the flip side they can wither, hurt, anger and discourage. What a gamut!

What about the role that words play in life. Words are a continuation of our thoughts, only verbalized. Do you always think carefully before you speak? Do you speak with good intentions? While it’s quite normal to have negative thoughts from time to time, and we’ve discussed how to diminish the occurrence of these thoughts. Just because we think it, does not mean that it bears repeating. Thinking something and giving it a voice just solidifies the thought. So if it’s negative, we’ve provided the nourishment for it to take root and sprout – just like a weed.
Do you want to attract negativity or lack? I’ll wager the answer is no. If so, don’t speak of it, about it, or repeat it. Easier said than done? Not really, but one must first become conscious of it when it is occurring. In The One Minute Millionaire there is company whose owner decided to have his employees accept responsibility for what they said by paying a fine for each negative thing that was uttered. He found it quite effective. Can you imagine having to pay for each instance of negativity that is said? Talk about accountability!

Mrs. Morgan, a fifth grade teacher, was heartsick as she listened to the words that were being spoken by her students. They were very negative, often hurtful, callous words that had no business being spoken, least of all to other impressionable, fragile children. Having been on the receiving end of hurtful words during her school days, she knew personally how damaging the long-term effects could be. After a great deal of thought she formulated a plan. She discussed it with the school principal, and after she was given the okay, she sat down to compose a letter to the parents.

The following Monday, she assembled her class and explained her distress over the words that were spoken each day. She told them that the principal and their parents were in agreement with her, and that they wanted the behavior to cease. They students each had 200 minutes of “free” time each week that was used for recess and “fun” activities. She explained that she was given permission to charge them 5 minutes for each instance of “careless speak” that she heard. Like most children they did not take her seriously until about mid-week when the most serious offenders were removed from the classroom because they had no more free time available. By Thursday afternoon she had less than a quarter of her class for free time, and by Friday she had just one student remaining. The children that were removed were put to work in other classrooms, or given additional lessons. The following week Mrs. Morgan saw a substantial improvement in behavior, and after doing this for three months the “careless speak” behavior was almost non-existent. The program was such a success that it was implemented grade by grade until the entire school participated.
Mrs. Morgan committed herself to making a difference. Are you ready to make a commitment? Make the commitment to yourself. The results will be phenomenal. You can begin to attract more positive things in life and improve your relationships. People who share your newfound control for voicing positive things will be attracted to you, and those who already know you will marvel at the new you. Your relationships will gather strength, and new ones will abound.

Let the 40,000 words that you utter each day mean something. Remember to choose your words with care, speak positive words with conviction, and let attraction work its very powerful magic.

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Are You Be-ing?

Are you Be-ing?
by Eva Gregory

Remember when you were young and played “pretend”? You could be anything that you wanted to be, there were no boundaries or obstacles. Do you recall the fun that you had being free to decide your path? It was fun wasn’t it? If so, why did you stop? Perhaps because it was time to “grow up” and be responsible? How limiting! Guess what, now’s the time to begin embracing your childhood again.

As adults we often want something, but our belief that we can’t achieve our desires end up standing in our way. It is time to suspend doubt and disbelief. The way to do this is by acting “as if”! DO not wait for the proof that you can be, do, or have what you want. BE it now in your mind. You can have what you want materialize by choosing the be-ing appropriate to your situation, since we become what we think about. The main idea here is that what shows up in your life directly corresponds to who you are be-ing. This said, if you want to make changes to the way things are showing up, your be-ing will need to change first.

Kelsey was beginning to lose hope of ever quitting her “day job”. She had been moonlighting in her home business as a Virtual Assistant for over three years, and still had not managed to come close to making what she was earning at her day job. In desperation Kelsey hired a personal coach. Her coach had her develop an Ideal Client Analysis by assembling a list of all of the qualities that she most wanted her clients to possess. By beginning with this exercise, Kelsey realized that more than half of her clients were not her ideal clients. Some did not pay on time, others tried to monopolize her time, and she even had a couple who were not very nice. Her coach then had her visualize what she thought her life would be like if she only worked with her ideal clients for the next month. Kelsey had visions of more free time, enjoying the work that she was doing for her ideal clients and being paid what she felt her services were worth, in a timely manner. Kelsey was thrilled with the picture that unfolded in her mind. Her coach then asked Kelsey to spend 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes at bedtime, visualizing herself as the person that attracted her ideal client.

After one month Kelsey had some amazing things to report. She had gained eight new clients that paid her double what she had been making, and she had started letting go clients that did not fit her ideal client analysis. Kelsey had learned that the person she was be-ing in the beginning was allowing herself to be walked on, and that by creating a new be-ing she would be able to quit her day job rather quickly. It all came down to her choosing the right be-ing in order for her to attain her goals.

One of the best things about games is the safety factor. What ever shows up is fine when it is considered Just a Game. Imagine being able to attract everything you want in life, just by deciding to BE the one that the lifestyle belongs to. How cool is that? Remember to keep it light and above all else, have FUN with it!


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Allowing the Objects of Perfection

Allowing the Objects of Perfection
By Eva Gregory

Did you know that the Law of Attraction works perfectly every time? It’s a perfect match for wherever the focus is being held – whether knowingly or subconsciously. Focus on a having a positive new attitude and watch your mood lift and your actions match your desires, think about your lousy day as you’re drifting off to sleep at night and your day may revisit you through your dreams, or your bad experiences could persist the next day too. But it’s even more powerful than just what is happening in the present.

Greta was sitting at the table having a conversation with a woman she met a few minutes earlier at a seminar. For a split second she glanced around the room and recognized the floral arrangement, the linen on the dais and looking to her left, even the gentleman speaking to another seminar attendee. Greta had never been to this particular banquet room in this particular hotel, yet, she knew that her companion was about to start speaking about her occupation and Greta already knew what she was going to say.

What Greta experienced is what most of us call déjà vu. The feeling that you’ve been somewhere, said something, or seen something before and are actually reliving it. How so? According to the laws of the universe, being in complete vibrational harmony is a gateway for tapping into events, experiences, or conversations that have not happened. It’s the ability to decipher things on a mental level before they actually physical unfold. Talk about powerful!

Imagine how much easier life would be if you knew what was coming, could create happiness in your present and could freely create the future. The reality is that with the laws of attraction you can. You can’t change the past, but can even use it as a lesson for how thoughts created a situation, and study the thoughts or vibrations which created the reality to better learn how to make it work for you. Many begin practicing the laws of attraction by making it a game. Focus on driving from destination A to destination B without hitting any lights, finding money each day without looking for it, or always finding a close parking space. When those things continuously show up (and they will) move on to bigger things. Just remember to keep it positive and keep your mind open to receive the things that are being requested.

Déjà vu is not a freak occurrence, but a state of allowing with such focus that the ability to see things with incredible clarity is the result. The workings of the universe are the key to manifestation. It is possible to be all, have all and live all that is desired. It is possible to create the perfect situation for you. Learn to recognize and practice being and allowing what is “perfect for you” to exist and it will be. Like a conductor for a symphony, you need to learn to orchestrate exactly what is desired for the ultimate life experience.

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Eva Gregory, International Coach of the Year 2006, master coach, speaker and author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity (www.FeelGoodGuide.com) has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction in person, on the radio and in dozens of teleconference training seminars and programs. She is the author of several books and e-books and has co-developed several telephone-based and internet-based training courses on the Laws of Attraction. Her most popular program to date is her Leading Edge Living One Year Success Program. Eva is regularly featured on radio and in the media and is a recognized authority on the Laws of Attraction. To learn more about her products and services, visit http://www.Leading Edge Coaching.com

A Whole New Outlook In An Instant

A Whole New Outlook In An Instant
By Eva Gregory

Ever meet someone who is always chipper, always has a kind word to say, can be sick in bed but still wears a smile. Why? What makes two people look at the same situation and observe two completely different things? Is it perception or something deeper?

Individuals who are happy and can always find the positive in a situation are masters of a skill that everyone should learn. They’ve mastered the art of flipping the switch on their perspective. They’ve learned that life is simply a perspective and just how good or bad it seems is dependent on their take on the situation. Literally that life can be changed in a snap. And that it’s necessary to turn down all of the negative talk that’s going on, and focus on the positive flip side that can be silenced by the sheer volume of the negativity. There’s always an opposite. The goal to having positive energy in life is to be able to recognize when negativity is surfacing and squash it like a bug.

It’s a lesson Gina learned just in time. Gina was in the midst of planning her wedding and was waging war with the wedding planner on yet another detail, when she noticed her groom laughing with one of the assistants. When Randy and the assistant spied Gina coming their way, they immediately stopped laughing. Gina was not having fun and could only focus on all of things still outstanding. Randy on the other hand was relaxed and relieved because he realized that hiring a wedding planner was the best use of their funds. While they still had to be consulted, they were not responsible for remembering every detail, organizing every vendor, and keeping track of the wedding schedule or the budget. Randy was enjoying his role in the planning process, but Gina was clearly flustered. On the way to dinner Gina blew up at Randy for not taking things seriously enough. Randy remarked that they were paying someone quite well in order for them not to have to stress so much about the “little stuff”, but Gina was fuming. Early the next morning Gina sat down with her planner and voiced her frustration. The planner remarked that Gina needed to look at the situation differently. She needed to focus on everything they had accomplished, instead of what was to come. In addition, she also remarked that Gina should appreciate that she did not have to0 worry about the details, because the details were her job and focus on the task of being the beautiful bride. Gina didn’t know how she’d done it, but her planner made her feel so much better. The planner didn’t know it but she had just made the wedding a lot less stressful for everyone involved. Gina was more relaxed, the planner had a much less hands-on bride, and Randy was able to go with the flow.

Like Gina found out, sometimes it takes help to switch a perspective, but whether it’s done on your own or with a little outside help, the outcome is well worth the effort. Sometimes it just takes a little practice, or you may even require a role model. So don’t be afraid to emulate someone who just seems to have a handle on optimistic, but keep the following joke in mind:

Worried that their son was too optimistic, the parents of a little boy took him to a psychiatrist. Trying to dampen the boy’s spirits, the psychiatrist showed him to a room piled high with nothing but horse manure. Yet, instead of displaying distaste, the little boy clambered to the top of the pile, dropped to all fours, and began digging.

“What do you think you’re doing?” the psychiatrist asked.

“With all this manure,” the little boy replied, beaming, “there must be a pony in here somewhere.”

Go on, get on out there and get ready to change the quality of your life in an instant. All if takes is a flip. And maybe a shovel?

WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? You're welcome to use this article online as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the "About The Author" info below:)About the Author:Eva Gregory, International Coach of the Year 2006, master coach, speaker and author of The Feel Good Guide To Prosperity has instructed thousands on the Laws of Attraction in person, on the radio and in dozens of teleconference training seminars and programs. She is the author of several books and e-books and has co-developed several telephone-based and internet-based training courses on the Laws of Attraction. Her most popular program to date is her Leading Edge Living One Year Success Program. Eva is regularly featured on radio and in the media and is a recognized authority on the Laws of Attraction. To learn more about her products and services, visit http://www.Leading Edge Coaching.com